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November 25, 2024

Finding Strength in Sound

For many of us, music is more than just sound—it’s a refuge, a place where we can escape reality, close our eyes, and let our minds roam free. Since losing my mom in December a few years ago, life hasn’t been easy. The grief has been heavy, but music has been my constant companion, my anchor. When I feel down and blue, I throw on some Tom Petty—his music feels like an old friend reminding me to “keep moving forward.” And when I’m looking to lose myself completely, there’s no one better than Buckethead.

Tom Petty walking through the forest with wildflowers growing around him

As a drummer (or at least a “so-called” one), I’ve spent countless hours on YouTube exploring drumming techniques and performances. One of the most awe-inspiring drummers I’ve come across is Murata Tamu, a Japanese powerhouse. Her intensity, creativity, and flawless double bass drumming blew me away. Watching her play introduced me to Saki from Mary’s Blood—a guitarist with immense talent. Saki’s skill, combined with Mary’s Blood’s incredible sound, struck a chord with me. Of course, I can’t overlook one of Mary’s Blood’s founder, Mari, whose drumming is powerful, precise, and deeply inspiring.

When I saw Murata and Saki collaborate on cover songs, it felt like a revelation. Their energy was magnetic, pulling me deeper into their music. This journey eventually brought me to Nemophila, a band that has been nothing short of a gift during my toughest days. Their fresh sound and dual-harmony guitars captured my heart. I even had the chance to see them live in Roseville, California—a memory I’ll cherish forever. I owe that night to my amazing wife, who brought the whole family along for the experience.

Like life, bands evolve and change. Nemophila’s lineup consists of vocalist Mayu, guitarist Hazuki, bassist Haraguchi-san, and drummer Murata Tamu. While I miss the dual guitars that initially drew me in, their music still resonates deeply with me. With beautiful vocals, awesome technical guitarist with an incredible bassist, and one of the best drummers I’ve ever heard, they continue to inspire me.

This past summer, my sister gave my family tickets to see Buckethead in Rocklin, CA. It was my third time seeing him live, and as always, he was mesmerizing. The first time I saw him back in the ’90s, I had no idea who he was—just a guitarist with a KFC bucket on his head. But by the end of that show, I was hooked for life. The Rocklin Amphitheater, with its intimate setting and great acoustics, made the experience even better. I hope he comes back next summer.

Buckethead playing at Rocklin California with white Gibson Guitar custom made for him

As I write this, I’m listening to my favorite YouTube playlist, a mix of tracks like Aunt Suzie by Buckethead, which has been my constant companion in moments when I miss my mom the most. It’s incredible how music has the power to hold you together when everything feels like it’s falling apart.

Japanese guitarist Saki sits down, playing her guitar during a live stream performance. Saki live stream

With my mom’s passing anniversary approaching, I’ve found solace in Saki’s new singles and performances. Her music, and that of so many others, has helped me navigate the waves of grief. I may never meet these musicians, but I hope they know how much their art means to people like me.

To all the artists who have inspired me and kept me going: thank you. Your music is a lifeline. Keep playing on.

Tony
321TMP

photo credit:
Tom Petty pic from Tom Petty – Wildflowers 
Saki pic from _chakixx_ live streaming
Buckethead pic by Elaine Montano